That’s a good question. Maybe the best question. The world looks a bit perilous doesn’t it? Well…

When I set out to become a submissive I was welcomed into the scene. My newbie mistakes were tolerated, my eagerness to learn was encouraged with a generosity of spirit that still makes me smile. Of course I made mistakes along the way but overall I had a wonderful adventure. I only wish I’d listened to my basic instincts which told me to turn my back on the vanilla world entirely – I would have been SO much happier! But that’s a tale for another night.

At present there seems to be a determined effort to send as many of us scurrying back into our collective closets as possible. As of this evening, it being late July in the year 2019, I’m closing in on my 37th year in the scene. I’m not about to put a lifetime of experience on the shelf, especially not now. I’ve already spent a good bit of time mentoring those with less experience. I enjoy answering questions and going over the basics. I especially like clearing up misconceptions like BDSM is nothing but abuse. There’s a huge difference – I’ll cover those details in its own post.

Most of my blog will be Q & A with the occasional observation. Please feel free to drop me a line. I’ll be happy to consider genuine questions. Flames will be cheerfully fed to my charmander.